A child had been raised by the same family since he was just one month old. He lived with them for a full twenty years, immersed in Chinese culture, customs, and family upbringing. To his adoptive mother, the boy was already family. However, when she finally decided to formally adopt him through legal channels, she discovered that she was facing not merely a matter of simple formalities, but a nearly insurmountable legal hurdle. The woman in the case, Pen, is a 57-year-old widow and business owner who already has seven children of her own. About twenty years ago, an Indonesian domestic helper in her household gave birth to a baby boy named Kal. According to Pen, the helper left shortly after the birth and has not been heard from since.